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    Can You Ever Trust a Cheater?

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    Can You Ever Trust a Cheater?

    Post by narutoe_vengeance on Wed May 14, 2008 2:29 am

    afro What Makes a Cheater? afro


    People who cheat fall in to many different categories. Some simply
    donít care about their partners, some lack empathy in general, others
    are narcissistic or selfish by nature, and some are drama seekers.
    However, all cheaters are driven by one common urge, the urge toward
    self-satisfaction above all else. Cheaters are motivated by their own needs.
    They ignore right and wrong in order to satisfy those needs.

    They act selfishly and think
    only of what they want with little concern for those they hurt. Cheaters may genuinely care for the person they cheat on but they will always put their own needs and desires ahead of those of
    their partners. Cheaters are selfish. They donít want to end one
    relationship in order to pursue another. They want it all and donít

    care about the cost.

    afro Why Do People Cheat? afro

    If you ask a cheater why they cheated they will most likely try to
    blame their infidelity on the relationship, the circumstances
    surrounding the affair, the person they cheated with or even the person
    they cheated on. They rarely blame themselves.

    Most cheaters know that what they did was wrong and feel the need
    to justify their bad behavior. They will have a variety of excuses
    ranging from impairment to something lacking in their partner, but in
    the end they cheated because they wanted to. Try as they might to give a good reason for their behavior they rarely have one.

    People who cheat do so because of something inside of them.
    Nothing another person does can make a cheater cheat. No matter how
    unhappy a relationship may be a cheater makes a choice to deal with
    that unhappiness by cheating. They have nobody to blame but themselves.
    If a cheater is unhappy in a relationship they donít have to
    cheat, they can leave.


    They choose to betray the trust of another person by cheating rather
    than ending the relationship. There is never a good reason to cheat,
    there are only good reasons to break off a relationship. Cheating is
    not only selfish it is cruel.


    afro Can Cheaters Change? afro

    People can always change. Cheaters are no different. Whether or not a
    cheater can change is completely up to the individual. The reasons the
    cheater gives for their past infidelity can help determine if they
    really want to change or if they might do it again.

    Some people cope with down times in their relationships by seeking
    outside excitement. If cheating is a coping mechanism it will require
    therapy to address and overcome. If this type of cheater doesnít get
    help chances are good they will do it again. It is just the way they
    cope with bad times in a relationship.


    Some cheaters are just immature and grow out of the cheating
    urge. This is common in teens and young adults because peer pressure
    can make them get in to a relationship before they are really ready.
    These types of cheaters are less likely to do it again.
    Other cheaters cheat because they can. If they have repeatedly
    cheated and been forgiven chances are good that the cheating wonít
    stop. It has become a part of the relationship dynamic. The only w


    afro What Makes a Cheater? afro

    People who cheat fall in to many different categories. Some simply
    donít care about their partners, some lack empathy in general, others
    are narcissistic or selfish by nature, and some are drama seekers.
    However, all cheaters are driven by one common urge, the urge toward
    self-satisfaction above all else.

    Cheaters are motivated by their own needs. They ignore right and
    wrong in order to satisfy those needs. They act selfishly and think
    only of what they want with little concern for those they hurt.

    Cheaters may genuinely care for the person they cheat on but
    they will always put their own needs and desires ahead of those of
    their partners. Cheaters are selfish. They donít want to end one
    relationship in order to pursue another. They want it all and donít
    care about the cost.

    afro Why Do People Cheat? afro

    If you ask a cheater why they cheated they will most likely try to
    blame their infidelity on the relationship, the circumstances
    surrounding the affair, the person they cheated with or even the person
    they cheated on. They rarely blame themselves.

    Most cheaters know that what they did was wrong and feel the need
    to justify their bad behavior. They will have a variety of excuses
    ranging from impairment to something lacking in their partner, but in
    the end they cheated because they wanted to.


    Try as they might to give
    a good reason for their behavior they rarely have one.
    People who cheat do so because of something inside of them.
    Nothing another person does can make a cheater cheat.

    No matter how
    unhappy a relationship may be a cheater makes a choice to deal with
    that unhappiness by cheating. They have nobody to blame but themselves.
    If a cheater is unhappy in a relationship they donít have to
    cheat, they can leave.


    They choose to betray the trust of another person by cheating rather
    than ending the relationship. There is never a good reason to cheat,
    there are only good reasons to break off a relationship. Cheating is
    not only selfish it is cruel.

    afro Can Cheaters Change? afro

    People can always change. Cheaters are no different. Whether or not a
    cheater can change is completely up to the individual. The reasons the
    cheater gives for their past infidelity can help determine if they
    really want to change or if they might do it again.

    Some people cope with down times in their relationships by seeking
    outside excitement. If cheating is a coping mechanism it will require
    therapy to address and overcome. If this type of cheater doesnít get
    help chances are good they will do it again. It is just the way they
    cope with bad times in a relationship.

    Some cheaters are just immature and grow out of the cheating
    urge. This is common in teens and young adults because peer pressure
    can make them get in to a relationship before they are really ready.
    These types of cheaters are less likely to do it again.
    Other cheaters cheat because they can. If they have repeatedly
    cheated and been forgiven chances are good that the cheating wonít
    stop. It has become a part of the relationship dynamic. The only way to
    beat this cycle is with individual and couples therapy.

    afro Moving on From Cheating afro

    If somebody cheats on one partner it doesnít necessarily mean that they
    will cheat on the next but they must want to change. If they don't
    address the reasons why they cheated in the past there is a good chance
    it will happen again in a new relationship. No matter what reasons a cheater gives a new partner for their past
    infidelity the reality is that this is a person who is comfortable
    betraying the trust of an intimate partner. Donít let lust lead you to
    overlook this character flaw.

    A cheater who wants to change must do some real soul searching
    and take responsibility for the harm they have done. They must stop
    trying to rationalize their behavior and admit that it was wrong. If
    they can't do this there is a good chance they will cheat again.ay to
    beat this cycle is with individual and couples therapy.


    Donít let lust lead you to
    overlook this character flaw. A cheater who wants to change must do some real soul searching
    and take responsibility for the harm they have done. They must stop
    trying to rationalize their behavior and admit that it was wrong. If they can't do this there is a good chance they will cheat again.
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    Re: Can You Ever Trust a Cheater?

    Post by feel_vengeance on Wed May 14, 2008 4:32 pm

    i dont trust cheaters , No
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    CAN YOU TRUST A CHEATER?

    Post by narutoe_vengeance on Wed May 14, 2008 9:24 pm

    ME NEITHER!!!!! lol!

    I ALSO CANT TRUST IF SOME ONE CHEATED ME!!!! Evil or Very Mad

    BUT I THINK THAT THEY SHOULD GET A CHANCE
    !!!!!
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    THEN
    "MAY BE" THEY DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE!!!! afro
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    Re: Can You Ever Trust a Cheater?

    Post by Taha_11_vengeance on Thu May 15, 2008 8:04 pm

    i dont trust cheaters
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    Re: Can You Ever Trust a Cheater?

    Post by nabbe-24_vengeance on Fri May 16, 2008 5:39 am

    I dnt trust cheaters afro
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    Re: Can You Ever Trust a Cheater?

    Post by savage on Fri May 16, 2008 8:58 pm

    People cheat cause they are not satisfied and want 'more'... Or you get the players which nowadays began to rise the in the females aswell. A normal cheater cant be trusted, cause he already proved that he is not satisfied with what he got. 2 - 3 months and the whole process begins over(if it doesnt end prior)

    Bottom line...

    Cheaters cant be trusted
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    Re: Can You Ever Trust a Cheater?

    Post by sweet_vengeance on Fri May 16, 2008 10:48 pm

    sometimes if it is someone u really REALLY love have cheated on you....it wud be hard to 4get them dho....I THINK I WUD FORGIVE THEM....IF I REALLY LOVE HIM......
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    Re: Can You Ever Trust a Cheater?

    Post by terr_vengeance on Mon May 26, 2008 7:51 pm

    WORD SAVAGE I AGREE WITH U! CHEATING IS FOR THE NUSATISFIED... CHEATING IS ALSO LIKE LIES YOU ALWAYS GET ANOTHER TO COVER UP THE 1ST... ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER...
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    Re: Can You Ever Trust a Cheater?

    Post by RazorX_vengeance on Tue May 27, 2008 11:39 am

    CHEATERS R CHEATERS...they dont change...
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    Re: Can You Ever Trust a Cheater?

    Post by Starscream_vengeance on Tue Jun 17, 2008 9:05 pm

    AS I HAVE SEEN COUNTLESS TIMES IN MY LIFE... ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT

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    Re: Can You Ever Trust a Cheater?

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